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Touched by Transplant: This Mom’s Birthday Became Her Re-Birth Day

Teacher. Mother. Survivor. This is the story of Help Hope Live patient Kellie Murphy, one of four winners of our 2017 Touched by Transplant New Life Contest.

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Kellie Murphy’s world was turned upside down when she received a diagnosis of multiple myeloma, a blood cancer caused by malignant plasma cells in bone marrow. The mother of two learned that to survive, she would need a bone marrow transplant as soon as possible.

Kellie also learned that the transplant would come with a host of out-of-pocket medical expenses, including co-pays and deductibles, temporary relocation and travel, caregiving costs, and a lifetime of immunosuppressant medications. She began fundraising with Help Hope Live as part of the Mid-Atlantic Bone Marrow Transplant Fund in February 2016.

In May 2016, Kellie found out that the bone marrow transplant she needed would be moving forward. “Believe it or not,” she wrote on her Help Hope Live campaign page, “cancer has made me realize how blessed I truly am.”


Last month, she sent us this incredible update:

“On May 31, 2016, I was admitted to the University of Maryland Medical Center to receive a bone marrow transplant in the hopes of going into remission from multiple myeloma. That day was also my birthday and my daughter’s birthday.

My time in the hospital was difficult, but the staff made it much easier. I will always remember their kindness. I had so many people to fight for, especially my son and daughter.

Now, almost one year later, I am engaged to be married, and my cancer is in complete remission. This year on May 31, I will turn 50 and my daughter will turn 21. We plan on really celebrating our joint birthdays and my new birthday since I have this chance at new life.

I am here because of others’ kindness, generosity, and many prayers. Thanks to Help Hope Live, we were able to make that difficult time a little easier on the people who were caring for me, and I will be forever grateful.

As of May 2017, Kellie is within $500 of her Help Hope Live fundraising goal. She fundraises for the Help Hope Live Mid-Atlantic Bone Marrow Transplant Fund.

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Kellie, right, with her daughter, Amber


Touched by Transplant 2017 Help Hope LiveThank you for your story, Kellie! If you have been moved by this story, make a donation to Help Hope Live in honor of Kellie today at: https://helphopelive.org/campaign/10362

A 77-Year-Old Donates A Kidney To Save His Son

On October 15, 2015, 77-year-old Bill Graham, Sr. became the oldest living kidney donor ever recorded at the University of Maryland Medical Center as he donated a kidney to his son and HelpHOPELive client, Andy. The transplant was a lifesaving gift for Andy, who had been fighting end-stage renal disease since 2013.

Andy is described as a “kind and generous man” by his mother, Mary Lou. He and his family were blindsided two years ago when he was diagnosed with acute renal failure despite exhibiting no symptoms or sign of the diagnosis. The unknown autoimmune disease that deteriorated Andy’s kidneys required him to receive dialysis three days each week.

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Andy received dialysis weekly

Andy became unable to officiate high school football games, a pre-diagnosis passion, and he could no longer maintain his fulltime job as an auto industry manager. Within 2 years, even climbing stairs or walking short distances became a major challenge. Andy needed a miracle –and that’s when his father stepped in.

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Andy with his donor Bill and his dog Angel

77-year-old Bill Graham, Sr. offered to donate a kidney to save his son’s life. To become a viable living donor, Bill lost a whopping 53 pounds at the request of Andy’s transplant team. “The doctors were truly amazed at his good health,” said Mary Lou. “He was so happy to be able to give his son the gift of a new life. Surgery was a complete success and the guys are on the road to recovery.”

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Bill Sr. and Andy are in good health

In a letter, Mary Lou thanked their generous friends and family members, who helped the transplant take place through their donations. With both donor and recipient now in good health, Andy and his family will still face multiple expenses related to the transplant, including expensive immunosuppressant medications that he will need to take for the rest of his life. Andy and his family continue to fundraise with HelpHOPELive to help offset those uninsured expenses and cover any unanticipated expenses that may arise.

Learn more about Andy and his transplant journey on his HelpHOPELive Campaign Page.